The cross :More and more couples are making pilgrimages together. They are 18% on the roads to Compostela, according to a recent survey. How do you explain this need? Sonia Chick : I believe that couples no longer find the time to talk to each other about important things. They are caught up in the […]
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Leaving for two, an adventure for the couple
Since the expulsion of Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden, the couple is, par excellence, the protagonist of the journey. And as anthropologist Jean-Didier Urbain, a tourism specialist, says, the archetype of travel as a couple is of course the honeymoon. A travel “obligated, offered and openly initiatory” which allows you to devote […]
“This adventure brought us a lot closer”: what traveling together taught them
“This experience has brought us a lot closer” Anaelle, 38 years old “I met my partner in Norway during my Erasmus year and since then travel has been part of our life. In 2016, we wanted to push the adventure a little further by leaving for ten months together. I quit my job and took […]
Place of life, marriage, children… How decisions are made in the couple
Who says couple decision immediately thinks in large format, with the most engaging questions: living together? To marry ? Have a child? Change region? Essential choices but which only embrace a small part of the vast field of arbitrations on which a couple’s life is built. On a day-to-day basis, you have to decide on […]
“Separation, a decision rarely taken together”
The cross : How do couples make the decision to separate? Musa Nabati: In some couples, two adults talk to each other to carry out a work of elaboration of this choice, where thought and reason have their place. For others, it’s a one-sided, impulsive decision made by an inner child. The little girl or […]
When politics separate couples
Politics is also everyday life. Proof of this is the French passion around elections, especially the presidential one, a passion that runs through married life and can make it quite sporty. → MAINTENANCE. Jean-Claude Kaufmann: “Resemblance does not make it possible to form a couple” Why is it so passionate? Because basically, everything is political, […]
“Am I heavy? ”: young men in the #MeToo era
Is the age of flirting over? From the pen of the historian Alain Corbin, this expression designates a very precise period, the first half of the 20th century, when a certain lightness, marivaudage reigned between the sexes. Now that carefree bubble has burst. This beginning of the 21st century is marked by a profound questioning […]
“With #MeToo, the masculine has become humanized”
The cross : Is it more difficult for a young man to seduce in the #MeToo era? Christine Castelain-Meunier: With #MeToo, the seduction market has become more complicated for them. This vast movement of debate on consent has pushed them to ask themselves questions that are sometimes new to them, including this one: what do […]
“I say no more easily”: after #MeToo, young women are evolving
► “Consent is never easy” Sabrina, 22 years oldworks in Paris “I don’t feel like #MeToo has stopped me from dating. I still happen to have a crush, in a party or a bar, to leave a boy my contact on Snapchat and Instagram so that we can meet again to get to know each […]
Forgiveness in the couple, a personal journey
► “It is more difficult to forgive your spouse” Cedric, 43 years “I have been led to forgive my companions several times. The functioning of a couple often leads to behaviors or actions that cause harm. In one of my unions, I forgave a bewilderment of seduction towards another person. We made progress but that […]